I feel bad going out?

There is nothing wrong with going out on the weekends. You sound very level headed and mature. It's not like you are going out partying and getting drunk or high, so I see no reason at all why you should feel bad about going out. And as far as dating, I don't see a reason not to have a boyfriend either. I can understand not being sexually involved at 16, but just having a boyfriend is perfectly fine in my opinion. I met the guy I ended up marrying when I was 16! We started dating at 16 and now we are 21 and we're married with a 18 month old daughter! So you never know who you might be letting pass you by! And as long as you can maintain your grades, and continue not to get involved with drugs and alcohol, then I see no reason why you shouldn't go out with your friends, or date.